The Love Language of Words

The Love Language of Words

Dr. Gary Chapman is his book The Five Love Languages, discusses how we all like to give and receive love in 5 specific ways.  Many of my readers have asked me to explain how to love someone in their love language.  If you don’t know what your love language is, or your partners start by going to Dr. Chapman’s site and take the test. This first article will help you love someone with words of affirmation. The love language of words.

Love Language of Words

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How to have the MOST romantic sex

How to have the MOST romantic sex.

It’s been a wild ride.  100 years ago, sex was mostly about procreation and was mostly driven by a man’s drive.  I don’t want to go back to that era.

have the most romantic sex

However, with the “sexual revolution” we have gone to places no one back then could even imagine.  When barriers come down, they come down hard.  When curtains fall, we are often witness to things that we didn’t want to see.

Such is the death of romantic sex.  I read this article last week and knew I had to write a post about it.  Go read it if you have time, but the summary is: Wild girl who is beginning to recognize her need for intimacy is acutely aware that the current generation is forgetting how to have romantic sex.

Painful.  I had already read it when my wife sent it to me as well.  This issue must really resonate with women! Some women it seems are becoming frustrated with society and it’s demand for more exotic and erotic sex.

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22 FUN things you can do with your partner this weekend!

22 FUN things you can do with your partner this weekend!

I hear from people all the time: “There’s nothing to do!”  Yes, there is, you just need to get some ideas percolating. Want to spice up your relationship?  Nothing like getting outside your normal routine and smiling at each other. Here is a bullet list of fun things you can do with your partner right away!

FUN things you can do with your partner

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My Best Advice on Sex, Relationships, and Marriage

My Best Advice on Sex, Relationships, and Marriage

Sex is easy.  My dog can have sex.  Sexual Intimacy is hard, but everything meaningful is hard.

Advice on Sex, Relationships, and Marriage

I just read another CRAZY article about couples giving permission to have sex with another person outside of marriage.  As if it’s a new idea! We’ve been getting married and having affairs for thousands of years.  Society has lost its mind on relationships and the horrific collateral damage has made many young people feel like a healthy relationship is out of reach.  I have talked with hundreds of young men and women that feel like their ability to find a partner for life has been taken from them in a cruel change of the rules.  Enough!  I want to propose a part plan to introduce healthy relationship and marriage skills to a desperate culture. This is my best advice on sex, relationships, and marriage. (more…)

How to Win a Girl’s Heart

What Good Guys Must Do to Woo Her

How to Win a Girl’s Heart

At least once a month a guy wanders into my office to ask me a few questions.  It usually goes something like: I really like this girl but she won’t have anything to do with me.  What can I do?  They are surprised when they find out most of what they do is actually turning her away.  Have hope!  Most guys have to learn how to get the girl of their dreams.  I’m here to help! Follow these steps to win a girl’s heart.

Win a girl's heart

Most girls can tell you their creepy guy story.  The guy that tries too hard or tries to force himself on a girl.  She is turned off by most of what a guy thinks works to get her.  He is surprised when his determination and effort is not only turned away, but she tells him to leave her alone.  FOREVER. Poor guy! (more…)

5 amazing sex tips for married couples will make you blush

5 amazing sex tips for married couples will make you blush

Marriage creates a different atmosphere for intimacy that much of our culture ignores.  I’m here to help!  Looking to rekindle the fire this week?  Here are 5 amazing sex tips for married couples that will make you blush.

sex tips for married couples

Tip #1 – Whisper something erotic into their ear.

Great sex starts with flirting.

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One Daring Trick to Make Your Partner Delightful

One Daring Trick to Make Your Partner Delightful

It’s the holy grail of relationships.

One Daring Trick to Make Your Partner Delightful

People who discover and actually use this trick will see the most improvement of ANY of the things couples can do to be better communicators.  It’s a simple trick, but most people don’t actually think of it when they have communication issues with their partner.  You need to know the one daring trick to make your partner delightful.

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